I sometimes hear from people who are looking for information in order to help them form a very specific regimen in order to conceive the gender of their choice. One common concern is how much sex you should be having during your fertility cycle.
I heard from someone who said: “how many times do I need to have sex if I want a boy baby? Because my friend said that you need to have intercourse more often for a girl baby. But she wasn’t sure how many times you need to have it. So how often is optimal? And do you need to have sex more when you’re trying to conceive a boy or a girl?”
How Often You Choose To Have Intercourse Depends On If You Feel Abstaining Will Help You To Conceive: This isn’t an uncommon question and you will hear all sorts of answers ranging from a response that says you should have sex as often as you possibly can while you are ovulating and can become pregnant. Or, you will also hear that you should abstain from sex until you know that you are ovulating and then should have sex only a couple of times to make sure that your sperm count is at its highest. I suppose that both of these theories have their merits. People who worry that they will have a hard time becoming pregnant will often use the strategy of having intercourse as often as often. Along that same line of thinking, people who feel that they have the luxury of becoming pregnant more quickly or easily might be more willing to use the attaining method.
Choosing Your Baby’s Gender Requires A Specific Regimen Regardless Of The Frequency Of Intercourse: However, when you have a specific gender in mind, then your regimen will often need to be more flexible. Because you do have to be choosy about when and how you conceive. And this could influence the frequency of intercourse. The reason for this is that you are trying to discourage (or even kill off) the sperm that you don’t want to fertilize the egg.
For example, if you want a boy baby, then you don’t want for the X or girl producing sperm to fertilize the egg. To make that happen, you’d want for three variables to be present. You’d want to have an alkaline PH. You’d want to have intercourse after ovulation. And you’d want use deep penetration. This is all meant to give the weaker boy sperm a boost. Because you are waiting to have sex until after ovulation, then you might have intercourse less times than you might if you weren’t waiting. However, this doesn’t mean that you necessarily need to have less sex if you’re trying for a boy. It just means that you should hold off until ovulation.
Likewise if you want a girl baby, you want to stop having sex after ovulation occurs. (You determine this by using an ovulation predictor.) So, you will have some days that you won’t be having sex once ovulation happens. This too might limit your opportunities for sex.
The Frequency Of Intercourse Is Not As Important As The Timing Of It: But to answer the question posed, there isn’t any particular number of times that you need to have sex for either gender. And you don’t need to have more sex for either. You just need to have it at the right time. Of course, the more times you have intercourse, the more sperm are released to fight for the egg. If your partner doesn’t have issues with sperm count, you may not need to abstain and you can have sex multiple times to increase your chances of success. But if you’re going to have sex multiple times, just know that you need to be deliberate on your timing.
Keep in mind that you can become pregnant after only one time of having intercourse if you’re ovulating. And having a lot of sex doesn’t guarantee that you are going to become pregnant either. That’s why it’s so important to know when ovulation is approaching so that you can plan accordingly.
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