I often hear from women who are wondering how having an orgasm might figure into their ability to conceive a certain gender. Many are confused about when to abstain and when it’s fine with to go ahead and have sex with an orgasm. Obviously, it’s necessary for the man to achieve this release so that conception can occur. But this isn’t true for the woman.
I heard from someone who said: “my husband and I are going to begin trying to conceive next month. I really want a girl baby. One of my friends told me that I must avoid orgasm if I want a girl. She said I should stop having orgasms once my period starts because you want to abstain as ovulation is approaching. Is this true? Do you have to avoid orgasms before ovulation? Because that sounds like a lot of work and planning.”
This Only Matters When You Are Actively Trying To Conceive: It certainly would take some planning and restraint if this were completely accurate. But it’s not. You don’t have to worry about abstaining or orgasms until you are actively trying to become pregnant. If you are trying for a girl baby as this woman was, then you want to begin having intercourse as early as three days before ovulation happens.
In order to get the timing right, you’ll need to track your cycle. There are various ways to do this. Some use the basal temperature method. Others monitor cervical changes. Many others use ovulation predictors. (This is the method that I believe is easiest and the most reliable when you are trying for a girl.) Once you determine that you are a few days before your expected ovulation day, then you need to realize that sex at this time could result in a pregnancy.
Whether Orgasm Is Beneficial Or Detrimental Depends On Which Gender You Want To Conceive: So if you care about which gender you conceive, then this is the time period where you will need to be put yourself in the best position to get the gender that you want. For a girl baby, this means having sex before ovulation and avoiding orgasm when you do. (The reason for this is the these bodily secretions make your vagina more alkaline and this favors boy sperm.) You also want to use shallow penetration and you want to make sure that your vaginal PH is acidic rather than alkaline when you’re trying for a daughter.
But this regimen only needs to happen when you are trying to conceive. You don’t have to worry about any of this when you are only having recreational sex at other times during the month. Additionally, the number of orgasms that you have doesn’t particularly matter. Only one can make you alkaline rather than acidic right before ovulation and conception. But several won’t make a bit of difference if you are outside of your fertility window.
Not only that, but any changes to your PH are short lived after orgasm. Your PH will eventually resort back to its normal level relatively quickly. (This is why you will often need to douche more than once per fertility when you are using this method to change your PH.)
Of course, if you wanted a boy baby rather than a girl, you can have as many orgasms as you want as this will actually make you more alkaline which is what you want if you’re trying for a son. So to answer the question posed, orgasms only come into play when you know that you can (and are actively trying to) conceive. You need to be within days of your ovulation day. For a girl baby, the woman does want to avoid orgasm only at this fertile time period. But if a boy baby is desired, then an orgasm around ovulation is actually beneficial.
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